Module 4 Worksheet

Asking for What You Want

Not every message needs an ask. But every message needs a reason.

Step 1

Your reach out

Start with one. You can come back and do this again as many times as you need.

Step 2

Choose your close

Which one feels right for this reach out? There's no wrong answer.

1

The No-Ask

You have nothing to ask. You're just showing up.

2

The Future Ask

You're planting a seed for a version of yourself that doesn't exist yet.

3

The Invitation

You're leaving the door open for them to surprise you.

4

The Scary Ask

You know exactly what you want. Say it.

5

The Moonshot

This feels almost absurd to send. Do it anyway.

6

The Question That Changes You

You're asking something that might shift how you think.

Choose a close type above to get started.

What it sounds like
Garden gnome

Before you hit send

What am I doing here?

Read your close back to yourself. Does it answer the question: what am I doing here, in this person's inbox? If it's foggy, go back and try again. If it's honest, hit send.